On Saturday, October 9, women across the country were gathering to talk about one thing and one thing only: sex. They were sipping on cocktails, playing "Pin the Member on the Man," and were eating boob-shaped cupcakes.

It was all part of Durex^®'s Girl Talk House Party^TM, sponsored by Durex^® and House Party^TM. Hundreds of women across the country who were selected to be party hosts received a box full of Durex^® goodies to share with their friends, including fun recipe and game ideas, 16 goodie bag pouches filled with Durex^®'s latest condoms, lubricants, and their new Love-Box^TM Collection, as well as the same products found in our Durex^® Wegasmic Giveaway (enter to win today! Ends October 14).

The objective of the night was to help guests "Close the Pleasure Gap" with their partners and to learn how to have more pleasurable sex. But, most importantly, it was a night to have fun talking sex with the girls!

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BettyConfidential joined in on the fun and received our own box of goodies, in which we found a DVD featuring Dr. Laura Berman, Ph.D., a sex and relationship expert. She filled us in on some startling facts:

1. It takes the average man 7 minutes to orgasm during sex

2. It takes the average woman 20 minutes!

3. 30% of men experience premature ejaculation

Yikes! No wonder we ladies need all the help we can get! That's why it was so great that we could share with one another the different ways we've tried to "Close the Pleasure Gap."

Here are some of the things we discussed...