Sleeping With How Many Guys Makes You A Slut?

This girl slept with 25 guys: is she a slut?

Sleeping With How Many Guys Makes You A Slut?

This girl slept with 25 guys: is she a slut?

-Libby Keatinge

A woman with two men

They say guys multiply their number by 3 and girls divide theirs by 3 when it comes to listing how many sexual partners they have had. So what number is “too much?” A confused girl wrote into YourTango because she has actually slept with 25 guys, but she lied to her boyfriend and said she had only slept with 7, but even her lowball number was too high for him – and he called her a slut!

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So what number is too many? And by the way, that’s totally not ok that her boyfriend called her a slut! Read more on YourTango.com.

Libby Keatinge is a senior editor at BettyConfidential.


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0 thoughts on “Sleeping With How Many Guys Makes You A Slut?

  1. whammy says:

    you are a sum of your choices. your choices define you. If you choose to sleep with a bunch of dudes then you are a girl that sleeps with a bunch of dudes. Your not extraordinary, you are common. How can I have a special bond with a girl and feel like Ive earned her and am close to her if so many guys have already had her? Stop playing “sex in the city” with your friends and have some self respect.

  2. whammy says:

    but with that said her boyfriend is total d-bag.

  3. sugarpie says:

    Why is it that we don’t call guys sluts? It’s a double standard. Personally, I wouldn’t be with any man who’s been “around the block” (to use a phrase that’s applied to women). He’s just not good relationship material.

  4. nycsinglelady says:

    Why am I supposed to keep count?

  5. dmack says:

    Because the sum of your choices equal only the number of people you’ve had sex with? That makes approximately 0 sense. There are many different aspects and facets to a person’s character than just their number of sexual partners. As a female I have had sex with about 20 people, and I don’t think that’s a bad thing. It’s not like I was getting a train ran on me, but I’ve dated, I’ve made mistakes, I’ve been in love, I’ve been hurt, and I am a more complete person because of it. When I settle down I will never wonder “what if” because I know what if. I know what I want, I know what I don’t. I doubt those girls who have dated 2 people in their entire life and married the first guy to pop the question will have as confident a sense of self or be as happy as I am.

  6. johnannarufus says:

    I dont know about that. It sounds like that word is floating around. But who am i to judge. Thats her choice. Im happily married to the guy ive ben married to for almost a year we ben together for 5 years. My relationship before that was 8 years i have four kids. play time is over. time to settle down and thats what i just did. get some respect for you body and find a guy to only be with. You wont want to catch something and not know it and who it came from.

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