How wierd, most girls I know rather receive than give!!

My wife loves me to go down, only she does not like to do t for me.

My boyfriend very good at this, so I pity any woman who is to nervous to receive this.

I am a 56 yr old woman who was married to a guy for 27 years who refused to go down on me. I do not know why he wouldn't because I always showered and douched before any sex. I became very intimidated about the idea of receiving oral sex. I KNOW I was very good at GIVING it. I guess the thing that bothered me the most was worrying about the smell. Of course, I have been with other men since our divorce and I know that THEY don't always smell great, but I still fantasize about someone licking my clit while using my favorite toy to stimulate my g-spot. I can get off just thinking about it!

It's too bad so many people have hang-ups about sex. Both sexes get crotch stink, so shower before sex, or at least use baby wipes and scented, flavored sex lube first. Not all women orgasm the same way, so try it all to see what works. Women really need to know their own bodies before they start have sex with other people. Masturbation for boys is second nature, but so many females won't talk to their daughters about it. We really do a disservice to girls by not discussing this before they become sexually active. It might even stave it off if girls knew how to pleasure themselves and didn't rely on partners to try and figure it out.

I love oral sex! But I found out that to get it,You have to give it.

so many men have told me they Love they way i smell, taste and so on... I don't get it, but who am i to drprive them of that Candy?

I DO NO A MAN THAT DONT EAT PUSSY IS SUBJECTED TO LOOSE HIS GIRLFRIEND EATING PUSSY IS AWSOME MAKING HER GO INTO CONVALTIONS AND SQUIRT ACROSS THE ROOM IS EVEN BETTER

In general most men I've known would prefer not to go "down there" -- not just on me, but on women in general. These same men have confided to me that *most* women are not skilled at giving oral. So, maybe couples should, early on in the relationship, come to an agreement about where they will and will not go sexually. It would certainly save a lot of time.

Hello, Natalie Bencivenga.
This is a good article - - - up to a point.

I can not understand the current trend of referring to a woman's genitals as her vagina. The Vagina is the passage that connects the internal Uterus with the EXTERNAL Vulva. It is the Vulva that receives the great majority of the attention when a man 'goes down' on a woman. Unless the man is part chameleon, his tongue is not going to be long enough to get very far into her Vagina.

Fingers? That's a (w)hole nuther story.

I would advise EVERY woman who wants to experience all the pleasure she can get from sex to get to know her Vulva and all its various parts and just what it can do for her pleasure-wise if she will just allow herself to be open to receiving said pleasure.

A pretty big part of this is also being willing to tell a male partner what she wants and what works for her. After all, he does NOT have her sexual equipment, her hormones or her sexual responses and he is not (usually) a mind reader.

Personally, I don't m ind a few licks now and again but I'm not much into all-the-way blowjobs. I'd rather deliver the tiny tadpoles where they do their best work - even if they aren't going to achieve anything when they get there. How-wevver, I DO dearly LOVE putting my tongue and lips to work on a willing woman's Vulva, getting her all wet and aroused, feeling her reaching for my touch with her pelvis and feeling her go out of control when she orgasms - again and again. And AGAIN.

Ladies, do yourself a favour. Let your man perform oral sex on you and help him to give you the utmost pleasure by telling him what you like and what you don't like, what works and what doesn't work.

And do yourself another, possibly even bigger, favour. Get to know and LOVE your Vulva. If you don't already know it well. do some personal research to discover its secrets. You have it and it is as sensitive as it is for very good reasons. The ball is in your court.

Thank you, Natalie, for opening up this discussion.

You have a wonderful sex life.
Best wishes.
TantricMasseur44.