Lindsay, Britney, Miley: Is It Mom's Fault?
Guest blogger Mommy Q on today's out-of-control starlets ... parenting may not be to blame.


Updated on May 18, 2011, 5:29 pm ET
By Cathy Hale, MommyQ    Find in Parenting    Related videos | articles | comments | share it

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Lindsay Lohan's sad pictures are splashed all over the Internet these days. She’s no longer the vibrant, talented red-headed little starlet we met many years ago. It’s hard to believe the stark contrast between her glory days in Disney’s remake of The Parent Trap in 1998 and her current role as an inmate, serving time for probation violation. Ouch. As a mother, I feel incredibly sorry for her. Like Britney Spears, her life just spun out of control. Nobody can give Lindsay something to hold on to. She just seems to be sinking deeper and deeper into a scary life of confusion and despair. And Miley Cyrus seems to be headed for the same rough waters.

This is nothing new when it comes to young Hollywood. The question at hand is: Who is responsible when young stars screw up? Parents should still be playing a big role in the lives of these girls. Is it mom's fault?

Earlier this week former teen pop sensation Debbie Gibson was interviewed on a Fox News show about Lohan's current debacle. As opposed to what’s been said about Lohan’s mother, Dina, Gibson credited her mother keeping her on the right path. She said her emotional well-being was always a top priority in her family.

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“Growing up, there’s this weird thing when you start as a child actor or teen star that you’re constantly getting praised for being poised and together so you can tend to mask a lot of emotional stuff and at some point, the lid’s going to blow off the pot,” Gibson said. “I went through all that. Luckily, I didn’t go through by way of drugs, alcohol or public meltdowns…I had my meltdowns in private, in a therapist’s office.”

Gibson goes on to say, “Luckily, my mom managed me and she always said ‘I want a sane, happy, healthy daughter who goes on to have a normal personal life and kids if you want, and I don’t want you to be exhausted and burnt out by 25.’”

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Yay heels
#1. Yay heels on 07/28/2010 - 8:01 am (EDT)
There's a huge difference between a mom and a manager, and it's a shame that parents like Lohan's looked at her as a meal ticket and not a person.
danggirl
#2. danggirl on 07/28/2010 - 8:05 am (EDT)
Yes moms -- and dads! -- are at fault! The difference between someone like LiLo and someone like, say, Natalie Portman, is clearly good parenting.

Now, that being said -- at a certain point it's time to accept responsibility for one's life and grow up!
deborah
#3. deborah on 07/28/2010 - 9:11 am (EDT)
OMG! That picture of Britney Spears is HYSTERICAL! What a fake tan, what a fake everythign else.
uptowngirl
#4. uptowngirl on 07/28/2010 - 10:17 am (EDT)
This is absolutely the parents fault! Take these examples: Britney, Miley and Lindsay all have parents who LOVE the limelight. Instead of being parents, they're busy riding their daughters' coattails. Growing up in the spotlight is hard enough without your parents competing with you.
mothermeryl
#5. mothermeryl on 07/28/2010 - 10:36 am (EDT)
It is the parents' fault. Yes, there are good people who have bad kids, but that's a whole other issue. Sometimes problems are inborn.That isn't the case here.
lovely_101
#6. lovely_101 on 07/28/2010 - 11:58 am (EDT)
LL mom should be put behind BARS for real! That Bit(h if a JERK! she's NO where around while her daughter is spiraling out of contorl! she's living off of her daugther... I guess she would rather LL be on drug.. to keep the attention off of her ass robbing LL money/career.
FFlotus
#7. FFlotus on 07/28/2010 - 12:02 pm (EDT)
the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
akseymour
#8. akseymour on 07/28/2010 - 12:42 pm (EDT)
While clearly these girls needed a stronger responsible adult presence in their lives, I wonder why the focus is always on the mothers being bad parents. What about the fathers? Why do fathers get off so easily in most discussions about raising children?
roadrunner
#9. roadrunner on 07/28/2010 - 2:11 pm (EDT)
I have to question where are the fathers in all of this? Fathers have more of a role play than people want to think. They help shape the children as well. Don't get me wrong, mothers play a very big role, but the fathers do too. I think that in these cases it was the parents wanting to be Best Friends instead of parents and not wanting to be the bad person especially while their children are in the spotlight. But I would rather look like a bad person for punishing my child than to look bad for not trying to correct the problem in the first place. But at some point the parents have to stop being blamed. Like in the case of Lindsey. She is an adult, it's not like she hasn't seen other people this way, she could have changed her ways and gotten the help that she needed and avoided all of this. she is an adult now, at some point the parents have to stop being blamed.
sam3050
#10. sam3050 on 07/28/2010 - 2:33 pm (EDT)
The 3 mentioned were created and controlled by Disney. Maybe they turn good girls into bad woman.