Is He Sexy … or Does He Have Sex Appeal?

Can a man be sexy, but have no sex appeal? And what makes a man sexy, anyway
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Is He Sexy … or Does He Have Sex Appeal?

Or: Can a man be sexy, but have no sex appeal? And what makes a man sexy, anyway?

-Sherry Trenee, DivineCaroline.com

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My friends and I are always discussing who is and who is not sexy. No matter how many times I try to change the subject, we always end up talking about men and their sex appeal or their lack of sex appeal. One person will say, “Oh, he has sex appeal, but he’s not sexy.”

Another person will say, “He is too short to be sexy, but he has sex appeal.”

My best friend simply says, “If he is romantic, then he is automatically sexy and has sex appeal.”

I will usually laugh and play the devil’s advocate by saying, “What if the woman is really short, is he allowed to be sexy then, or if he has a sexy body is that the same as having sex appeal?” I am always so amazed and amused by the things that we discuss. Sometimes we are so trivial, but it’s entertaining and a lot of fun.

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Are sex appeal and sexy one and the same? Can a man be sexy, but have no sex appeal? I guess he can have a sexy body, but lack sex appeal. I’m guessing that sex appeal is in the way you carry yourself, and sexy is a particular attribute on the body. Personally, I have always thought that sexy and/or sex appeal is a complete package. I don’t know, but what I do know is that sexy men or men with sex appeal are in short supply.

So, what makes a man sexy? What is sex appeal? Is it his rock-solid abs of steel? Is it his firm butt? Is it his charming personality? Is it his strikingly good looks? Everyone wants it, but how do you get it? Well, we all know that these are hard questions to answer, for we live in a society that favors aesthetics over intelligence and the content of one’s character. However, maybe we can reach some common ground and describe the ultimate sexy man…


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  1. DiamondLove says:

    To me, being sexy and having sex appeal mean the exact same thing. Now, if you want to ask if an ugly man can be sexy, that’s a different thing. I have met many “ugly” people who are extremely sexy and beautiful people who have no sex appeal whatsoever. It’s basically a vibe you give off.

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