Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey got engaged within hours of each other and already everyone is comparing Jessica and Vanessa Minillo's rings, potential wedding locations, and dresses.  So, we're asking you to tell us:

Do you think people really compete in relationships? Have you ever been guilty of trying to "one-up" a friend, ex, neighbor or co-worker by having a better party, more expensive clothes, or other forms of material competition?

 Yes, we want to know!

We recently kicked off our community of Fan Bloggers at BettyConfidential.com and are looking for more fabulous posts. If you are already a BettyConfidential fan blogger, get posting!

 If you'd like to host your own blog, then send us a short blurb about yourself, and your first post (answering the 'Question of the Week') to fanbloggerinfo@bettyconfidential.com.

 The Deets:

 What's a Fan Blog?
A Fan Blog is YOUR own blog, hosted on BettyConfidential.com. It's completely up to you what you post and publish -- we won’t be censoring or editing what you write, but we will ask that you keep it Betty-friendly (nothing X-rated, ‘k girls?). The Betty editors may select blog posts to be featured on the regular Betty site, and we will promote the fan blogs, but we'll also be looking to you to promote your own blogs to your friends and social media contacts.

About the Fan Blog Pilot Program:
Our first fan blogs will focus on love+sex – all the fun (and trouble) of dating and relationships. We want to hear from Bettys in all walks of life – from single girls in the city to long-distance lovers to married mamas – anyone who’s willing to keep our readers updated with the trials and tribulations of your love life! Our love+sex editor Libby Keatinge will suggest weekly topics, but it’s up to you to decide what you want to blog about, and how often (though we are looking for at least one post per week). We won’t be censoring or editing what you write, but, again, we will ask that you keep it Betty-friendly (sauce, snark and juicy details: yes! ... porn: no!). Along the way, we’ll be inviting your feedback about the fan blog program.

We look forward to your dating scoop! You may even get your post featured right here on Betty. The juicier, the funnier, the crazier, the better.

Happy blogging!

The Bettys