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The Dating Game

Dating Tips: Don't Say It!

Five things you should never say on a first date. (Unless you don't want a second)

-Single Betty

First Date

There are dating tips, and then there are dating don'ts. If you want to make it past the first course (let alone the first date), here are 5 mood killers to avoid like the plague.

1. You're going to love my parents!

First of all, no, he probably won't. Second, a first date is supposed to be spent figuring out if you want to see the other person naked - and you've just brought your mom and dad into the room. Talk about a buzz-kill. Well, unless your mom is super hot, in which case, you have other problems.

2. Blah, blah, blah, WEDDING, blah, blah, blah, blah.

It doesn't matter if you're talking about a friend's wedding, a hilarious episode of Bridezillas, or the time your Barbie married your brother's Ken doll - do not bring up weddings. Again, while it may appear that your date is listening to you intently, he is mostly just trying to get a good look at your boobies. His ears will, however, pick up certain key words. "Threesome" is one, "weddings," is another. As you might imagine, these two words elicit very different reactions.

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11 comment(s) on this article...
bellavita
#1. bellavita on 07/23/2009 - 10:31 am (EDT)
I would also never talk about children(unless, of course you're a single mother/father talking about the children you already have) it scares men off just as much as talking about weddings!
hope_xo
#2. hope_xo on 07/23/2009 - 10:39 am (EDT)
Hahahaha
rose07
#3. rose07 on 07/23/2009 - 10:43 am (EDT)
LOL but I love to share every single one of my thoughts :P
cloo
#4. cloo on 07/23/2009 - 11:21 am (EDT)
Don't talk about past relationship wrongs on the first date. That never ends up good.
ErinW
#5. ErinW on 07/23/2009 - 11:42 am (EDT)
HAHAHA!
blondeambition
#6. blondeambition on 07/23/2009 - 11:58 am (EDT)
depends on the guy!
Strong and Quirky
#7. Strong and Quirky on 07/23/2009 - 12:23 pm (EDT)
hahaha

Don'ts
- I have ____ issues (ex: trust, control, etc)
- Criticize the date (ex: I can't see why you love sports, it's boring)
Meggieliz8
#8. Meggieliz8 on 07/23/2009 - 2:54 pm (EDT)
Don't fish for compliments! And dear god do NOT call yourself fat or make any reference to things you hate about your appearance. Makes you look waaay too needy. And a bit of a head case.
MsFahrenheit
#9. MsFahrenheit on 07/23/2009 - 2:55 pm (EDT)
I'm guilty of one or 2 of these. lol
yogaflirt
#10. yogaflirt on 07/25/2009 - 11:56 am (EDT)
Don't try to fill ackward silences with meaningless talk. It's not a good plan.

And I agree DON'T TALK about past relationships,especially negative experiences.

Just try to have fun and laugh!!

 


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