Does your man come home and get horizontal on the couch with his hand in some popcorn while he watches Family Guy every day after work? What happened to those visions of living together where you wait at home in lingerie with a martini shaker and rip off his tie when he walks in the door? Whether it’s your busy work or social schedule, or you have kids at home, whip up this at-home version of bar chef Albert Trummer’s "Deal Closer,” which uses a special natural ingredient to get your man going. Horny goat weed or Epimedium grandiflorum has historically been used as a sexual stimulator by increasing testosterone production. So DO try this at home!

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Drinks for 2

Take 8 oz of Bombay sapphire gin

Mix with:

8 slices of cucumber

1 slice of dill

3 cherry tomatoes

2 oz fresh lime juice

1 tsp brown sugar

put all ingredients in mixing glass

stir gently

put in 6 ice cubes and let sit for five minutes

add one drop of horny goat weed

Horny goat weed can be purchased at select herb shops or online.

Libby Keatinge is senior editor at BettyConfidential.