Jon Gosselin spent this weekend having fun with girlfriend Hailey Glassman, seemingly unconcerned with the pending TLC lawsuit, his financial difficulties or his eight children at home with soon-to-be ex-wife Kate. How can he be so unconcerned while his life implodes? It’s simple, says an insider, Jon’s in love.

"Jon dedicated his whole weekend to Hailey,” the insider tells BettyConfidential. “She wanted a romantic weekend in New York and he delivered, with as many paparazzi trailing them as possible. They had a quiet dinner on Saturday and took a walk around the Upper West Side, then he took her shopping and for a carriage ride through Central Park. While they were shopping, Jon told Hailey she could have anything she wanted. So she went to town, trying on different jackets and shirts and then she handed her selections to Jon to pay for, which he happily did."

The source says Jon is head over heels in love with Hailey and marriage may be on the horizon as soon as his divorce with Kate is final. "Hailey's parents expect Jon to be an upstanding man,” the insider says. “He tells them how much he loves Hailey and wants to be with her always. Jon is quick to say he will never hurt her and she is the love of his life. Getting married is in their plans if they make it through all the drama."

That's a big IF.

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