What is beautiful to you? Magazines would have us believe that beauty can only be found in blemish-free skin, impossibly long legs, perky breasts that would do a Victoria's Secret model proud and a flat belly.
So when Glamour magazine chose to run this picture of a real woman on page 194 of its September issue, it caused an outcry.

And that got me thinking. How sad is it that a photo of an average-size woman that reveals she has stretch marks and a belly can lead to a media storm? After all, isn't this what most women see when they look in the mirror?
And then my sadness turned to anger. I mean, how messed up are we as women that when we see a photo of a size 12 woman in a magazine we find it thought-provoking, confronting and worthy of discussion. Shouldn't the conversation be about why women who look like this model, 20-year-old Lizzi Miller, aren't on the pages of every magazine, including the cover?
Confession: I am a size 16, and worked in women's magazines for years. I am one of those people who has gazed at photos of Chanel-clad stick insects and wished for just a moment that I was eight inches taller and 50 pounds lighter.
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