Real Women Have Belly Fat
How a photograph is reminding us that what we see in the mirror isn't always reflected in magazines


Updated on August 25, 2009, 9:50 am ET
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What is beautiful to you? Magazines would have us believe that beauty can only be found in blemish-free skin, impossibly long legs, perky breasts that would do a Victoria's Secret model proud and a flat belly.

So when Glamour magazine chose to run this picture of a real woman on page 194 of its September issue, it caused an outcry.

Lizzie Miller in Glamour

And that got me thinking. How sad is it that a photo of an average-size woman that reveals she has stretch marks and a belly can lead to a media storm? After all, isn't this what most women see when they look in the mirror?

And then my sadness turned to anger. I mean, how messed up are we as women that when we see a photo of a size 12 woman in a magazine we find it thought-provoking, confronting and worthy of discussion. Shouldn't the conversation be about why women who look like this model, 20-year-old Lizzi Miller, aren't on the pages of every magazine, including the cover?

Confession: I am a size 16, and worked in women's magazines for years. I am one of those people who has gazed at photos of Chanel-clad stick insects and wished for just a moment that I was eight inches taller and 50 pounds lighter.

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Manicmommy
#1. Manicmommy on 08/25/2009 - 9:15 am (EDT)
I wish all I had was HER belly fat. I wonder if she was standing up/with clothes on how our perception would change of her?
mk_ultra
#2. mk_ultra on 08/25/2009 - 9:49 am (EDT)
I know it's not politically correct, but I can't help but think 'ick' when I look at her stomach. I wouldn't want to see $12.99 Payless shoes in a fashion magazine just because they're what "normal women" wear either.
needcoffee
#3. needcoffee on 08/25/2009 - 9:59 am (EDT)
i'm torn on this one ... i'd have to say I sorta agree with mk_ultra on this one. I think when it comes to health we have to set our standards high, but it also doesn't mean i don't think that women of all shapes and sizes shouldn't feel comfortable in their skin and that the media places way too much emphasis on appearance...
Manicmommy
#4. Manicmommy on 08/25/2009 - 11:44 am (EDT)
mk - that's just horrible that you think the woman's stomach is 'ick'. And sad that you're too good for Payless shoes.
Carolyn88
#5. Carolyn88 on 08/25/2009 - 11:57 am (EDT)
I think she's gorgeous!
Candice
#6. Candice on 08/25/2009 - 12:07 pm (EDT)
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS.
I saw this picture in the actual magazine and I admire her, for one, and the magazine for two for putting this in there. It's real.
mfe
#7. mfe on 08/25/2009 - 12:32 pm (EDT)
I think Glamour needs to have her on the cover next time!
Strong and Quirky
#8. Strong and Quirky on 08/25/2009 - 1:03 pm (EDT)
I agree with @needcoffee

Lizzie is normal. Many people need to face the facts that not every female is hipless, curveless, small busted (or big busted like Barbie) with a flat tummy.

We should embrace all shapes and sizes. Not every woman above a size 2 is obese.
GonnaLaughatYou
#9. GonnaLaughatYou on 08/25/2009 - 2:31 pm (EDT)
I am appalled at the fact that they finally placed a woman in that magazine. They should have done this SO LONG ago!!! The Dove "real women" campaign had something when they advertised their product with REAL women in their commercials. Good photographers are able to capture anyones inner beauty and already have a leg up on what's really appealling...It's called REALITY, and it's about time the mag editors begin standing up to and showcasing this reality as well. I see women like this everyday at the store, walking in the park, sunbathing, shopping, they're everywhere. And they're beautiful! It's just the plastic-like, makeup slathered 20,30 and sadly sometimes, the 40 somethings stuck in their teens who need to face life, give their overall personality an overhaul with a shot of moral botox, some guidance filled implants here and there, and maybe a handbag filled with integrity. Join the rest of the real grown-up women, in the real grown-up world. A person is more than just that big organ sheething over our frame, our skin. Sometimes advertising stretchmaks as proof of childbirth, a hard life evident through our scars and even a spot of rebellion proudly etched onto it even if it meekly proclaims "I Love Mom". I'm so happy to read such refreshing comments about this story, and after doing so, I'm even more proud of my own body. Even if it may need some exercise, has stretchmarks and a scar here and there, it's mine nonetheless.
24glow
#10. 24glow on 08/25/2009 - 3:09 pm (EDT)
Have some of these women who find Lizzi "appalling" ever had children? Yes, after children one can get back into great shape, but the skin does stretch a bit. If she were standing or even sitting differently, the "pooch" would show less. The point is, she is a beautiful woman...period. I wish my skin were that clear and the only place I had a little fat was my stomach. It's not like she has dimples on her thighs or flabby arms. As someone said, camera angles are everything. Glamour probably shot her this way to provoke discussion and here we are discussing it.