How to Get a Guy to Hit on You
5 little tricks to convince him it’s time to make his move.
-Amber Madison
As much fun as it can be to turn the tables and take the lead every once in awhile (see How to Hit on a Guy), most of us still prefer the time-tested tactic of letting guys approach us first. Not only does it let them do their “hunter” thing, it’s also flattering for us to be picked out of the crowd. But it’s important to remember that you don’t have to relinquish all control just because you'd rather let him to make the first move. If you know how to play your cards right, it’s not difficult to tilt the odds in your favor and convince him to come try his luck with you.
OK, it’s a Saturday night and you want to meet a guy — or maybe even a few guys. So you spend two hours perfecting your hair and makeup, throw on your hippest skinny jeans, sexiest platform pumps and the flashiest shirt in your closet. You go out to a bar with your girlfriend, buy a pair of vodka sodas, settle into a corner table and wait…. But no guys approach. What's wrong with this picture? If you really want to get hit on, you need to understand how to really get his attention. Here, ladies, are the ground rules:
Have fun. There’s nothing more attractive to a guy than a girl who’s just fun to be around. When you’re out a bar, be the life of the party. Goof off, laugh, throw straw wrappers at each other, and just have fun with your friends and enjoy their company. Not only will guys want to approach you, they’ll be less intimidated because you’ll come across as a fun, sweet, approachable girl.
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Move around. Think about how scary it must be for a guy to approach a table of ladies who look like they want to keep to themselves. That type of situation screams “strike out,” and not so surprisingly, most guys simply stay away. Instead of sitting at a table with your girls, stand in the bar area, or if there’s music playing, dance around a little bit. Show guys that you’re there to meet people, not to keep to yourself.
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Ladies, just have fun - your confidence will shine thru and will make you approachable.
Now a second article on what to do when the guy comes over is due... lol
And to everyone else, this article really has some good tips! No guy worth a dime wants that "hot girl" that spent entirely too much time trying to look sexy, because she doesn't. She looks slutty. The laid back casual girl is the one guys want to talk to. And the double look is INCREDIBLY important! I have never had a problem talking to ladies, but in a world where a typical guy will get rejected 50 times before one girl says ok, guys need that reassurance. I don't know how many of my buddies I have told to go talk to a girl but they didn't because they weren't for sure if she just glanced once or was interested, and didn't want to make a complete ass out of themselves in public.
Just my two cents worth...
There is widespread MISANDRY in our society. (reverse sexism by women against men). You see it in the commercials on TV where the man is portrayed as a hapless boob who has gotten himself and/or his family into trouble yet again. Then the "heroic woman" swoops into to save the day tossing off condescending and sarcastic remarks to the husband.
Because of widespread divorce, boys are starved for adult male companionship so that they can learn what being a man is. So many boys are raised in a matriarchal society. Is it any wonder that homosexual males have skyrocketed?