In love, as in life, the key to success lies in your confidence and self respect. It is vital to maintain a certain level of autonomy even while in a relationship, so that each partner can grow as people independently and then as a couple. When you lose yourself in a relationship, there's only one way its heading- south. Needy behavior can be subtle or overtly obvious. Regardless, projecting insecurity and the form of clingy behavior puts a major strain on your relationship. These are the top 6 ways to tell if you are a needy girlfriend…