10 Reasons to Flirt with a Married Man

Why should you try flirting with a married man? We'll give you 10 reasons!


10 Reasons to Flirt with a Married Man

Bat an eye at a married guy without becoming a home-wrecker


a man and woman flirtingBefore getting your moral molars all impacted, we’d like to make clear that we’re not endorsing having an affair or ruining a perfectly good marriage (or an imperfect one, for that matter).

Whether single or taken, flirting is fun. Getting hitched helps out in the tax and health care departments, but married social life can start to feel like a blur of “dinner at the Newman’s” and “girls’ nights out.” We already know that flirting at the office helps business and is good for substance-free spirit-lifting.

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Unlike flirting with single blokes, hair flips and deep conversations with married guys aren’t automatic green lights for making a move. Here are ten other reasons to flirt with a man in a (wedding) band.

1. Flirting with an unavailable man can make you feel good about yourself without pressure to seal the deal-or face any sort of actual rejection. If he makes an unwanted move, you can always say “You’re married! I didn’t think this was going anywhere!”

2. In fact, you can try out crazy pick-up lines, silly stories and generally act however you want without worrying that he thinks you’re a fool.

3. Batted lashes can make an off-the-market man feel good about himself. (This will only appeal to the altruistic among us.)

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4. Sometimes social gatherings are so dull, it’s either flirt with this guy or punch out that chick who will not stop talking about her Christian Louboutins.

5. Coy smiles at Mr. Married will make you seem more in-demand to Mr. Single. Translation: get that guy from way over there to come over here.

6. Entrapment. Save his wife the trouble of finding out later in life that he’s a scoundrel. (Again, only for altruistic souls.)

7. It might improve your (solo) sex life: Sir Wedlock could be a new addition to your fantasy repertoire.

8. He could have a cool friend who’s into forward women unafraid to chat up married guys.

9. Exchanging witty banter allows you to enjoy meeting someone new and feed the brain with interesting conversatioin. (Duh).

10. Drinks don’t pay for themselves.

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0 thoughts on “10 Reasons to Flirt with a Married Man

  1. Is it just me or is anyone else offended? I would hope that no woman would flirt with my husband…I would hope that my husband would surround himself with the type of women who could buy a drink for herself!

  2. from a male view I’m sorry to break it to you deborah and kitty but I’d put money on it that women flirt with hubbies….office flirting goes on alot! i have many women flirt with me at work and I’m happily married. The real thing to find out is if the hubby flirts back and if he does how far does he go. Unfortunately this is what leads to cheating which is a no-no.

  3. Well even if a single gal is chatting up a married man, it’s the married man’s responsibility to ward her off and put her in her place and not take it to the next level. It’s a two-way street!

  4. This is so pathetic, it’s not even funny! It’s asking for trouble to flirt with a married man. Be careful what you wish for, you will get into trouble.

  5. Flirting is only fun when you can do it with a guy who is single. Flirting with a married man is a waste of time cause in the end, you end up with zilch!

  6. Why waiste your time and energy on something that is already spoken for. I believe like said earlier you will end up on the bottom each time. More times than none he aint going to leave the comfort of his family so why why I ask waiste your time…

  7. as a married woman, there are many single men trying to flirt with me. single women should flirt with single men. there is no shortage of men or women to flirt with. hands off marriages. marriages are hard without outside interferences

  8. This has to be the most superficial article I have come across in awhile. First off, you should never flirt with a married man for the simple reason that he is MARRIED. The day it’s you wearing that ring, you wouldn’t want someone hitting on your hubby. Second, and most importantly, why should a woman need to hit on an unavailable man for self esteem? Are we considered to be that shallow? “Drinks don’t pay for themselves” are you kidding me? This is the worst advice to give a girl. And it’s spelled “conversation”.

  9. well i think that if a qirl comes up flirtinq with my man and he flirts back that has ro mean somethinq. dosent it ? it means that either he’s not happy with you or your not satisfyinq him. but hey quys will be quys & qirls will be qirls so if your man cheats on you dont lay down & cry because you not qettinq nowhere. DONT GET MAD GET EVEN qirls ! that will make the quys qo crazy knowinq that their wifes aren’t qettinq mad that he’s cheatinq on u. be smart. you also have to look at it from a quys point of view 😉

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