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Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I recently joined an online dating service, and I've spoken with two gentlemen over the phone. There is one that I am interested in very much, and our first conversation was wonderful, we even made tentative plans to get together in the near future. My question is: should I wait a week or two before calling him, or wait for him to come to me? The gentleman I like the most lives near me which is a plus, and we have so much in common. I really don't know what to do, this waiting is killing me. I would love to at least have a first date with both of these gentlemen before deciding who to pursue.

Avery: Have some guts and call him and ask him out. With all the great chemistry you share, what do you have to lose? Pick up the phone RIGHT NOW and call him. Do it!